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The fourth commandment is not about church attendance it's about rest from work and honoring God with your rest. Isn't it about time you find time to rest?


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Ignoring the Fourth Commandment

Spiritual Disciplines Series

The fourth commandment is not about church attendance it's about rest from work and honoring God with your rest. Isn't it about time you find time to rest?

I have really felt convicted lately to take a good long look at the fourth commandment.  In examining scripture I have discovered that the emphasis on this command is not about corporate worship, even though the Israelites were called to holy assembly on the Sabbath.  I always assumed my church attendance fulfilled this commandment, but that is definitely  not the point of number four. This commandment is specifically speaking of rest.  REST.  The absence of work.

Remember to observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. You have six days each week for your ordinary work, 10 but the seventh day is a Sabbath day of rest dedicated to the Lord your God. On that day no one in your household may do any work. This includes you, your sons and daughters, your male and female servants, your livestock, and any foreigners living among you. 11 For in six days the Lord made the heavens, the earth, the sea, and everything in them; but on the seventh day he rested. That is why the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and set it apart as holy. Exodus 20:8-11NLT

The fourth commandment is not about church attendance it's about rest from work and honoring God with your rest. Isn't it about time you find time to rest?

The words that stand out in the above scripture are:

Remember

Dedicate

Rest

Apart

Holy

God wanted His people, even the animals, to rest so they would be refreshed.  And God was very serious about resting, even to the point of  a death punishment for disobedience.  The point of the seventh day of rest  is found in Exodus 31:13   It is given so you may know that I am the Lord, who makes you holy.  

Our response?  I for one do not want to ignore the fourth command anymore. These rules of love were so important to Him that He carved them into stone tablets with His own finger.  Jesus tells us that the most important command is the first one, loving God, and that all the other laws hinge on it and on loving our neighbor.  The fourth commandment is just another way to express love toward Yahweh, our Father.

Here are some ideas to incorporate resting into your family life.

Pick a Day every week to rest.

Sunday is the natural choice, but shift workers might have to pick another day.

Individualize your definition of rest.

Will you mow or cook on your day of rest?  How will you lead your children in restful activities?  Is TV viewing or video games your idea of rest?  How about sports?  You make the rules. Be flexible.  Nothing should be set in stone.  Let your rest time have a natural ebb and flow that develops into something personal for you.

Be intentional.

Plan ahead so that work related activities are finished the day before.  Plan quiet family activities.  Resting doesn’t mean you can’t have fun.

Our culture of full speed ahead from dawn till dusk can easily distract us from focusing on God and family.   I would love to hear what you think of this idea of resting once a week.

The fourth commandment is not about church attendance it's about rest from work and honoring God with your rest. Isn't it about time you find time to rest?

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You might be interested in other posts from the Spiritual Disciplines Series below:

Spiritual disciplines will clothe you with depth, suitable clothes for the wedding banquet. Find out what these disciplines are, and battle the enemy as he tries to steal your time from you.

It is important to know that Jesus is not a genie ready to deliver hearts and rainbows just because I rubbed the lamp. Look y'all, if you are like me, and I'm betting you are, you spend most of your time in prayer presenting your requests. Here are some ideas to make your prayer time into more of a partnership...more of a love fest...more of an expression of trust.

So really, if I want to fight like a boss, like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy. Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me. In order to swing the sword, I must train. Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.

Couldn't fasting be any pleasure we voluntarily abstain from in order to pray? How about unpainted toenails? Free printable with out of the box fasting ideas.

 

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Couldn't fasting be any pleasure we voluntarily abstain from in order to pray? How about unpainted toenails? Free printable with out of the box fasting ideas.


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Unpainted Toes and Other Ways to Suffer in Prayer

Did you click on my post because of the title?  Give me a minute and I’ll explain.

Couldn't fasting be any pleasure we voluntarily abstain from in order to pray? How about unpainted toenails? Free printable with out of the box fasting ideas.

Fasting is a Spiritual discipline that I am interested in but am NOT an expert on.  From what I understand in scripture, people withheld food from themselves in order to pray.  I guess there is something about suffering that focuses the mind, and lets Jesus know that you are serious.

But couldn’t fasting be any pleasure we voluntarily abstain from in order to pray?  Does it have to be just food?  Several years ago a beloved uncle was in the throws of cancer.  He was riddled with it,  and there was nothing left to do but pray.  I found myself forgetting to remember him on certain days that I was consumed with my job and life. I DIDN’T WANT TO FORGET!   So I devised a plan.  I stopped painting my toenails.  Hear me out y’all.  In my part of Texas we wear sandals all the way up until winter.  When I look at my toes, it makes me happy to see shiny, bright colors staring back at me.  When they are not painted I cringe.  (I know some of you are laughing…me too)  These unpolished toes reminded me to pray.  Not only that, but it reminded me that while I was living a perfectly healthy life, someone I loved was in agony.

Couldn't fasting be any pleasure we voluntarily abstain from in order to pray? How about unpainted toenails? Free printable with out of the box fasting ideas.

 

And now, another person I love is in agony over an ongoing job situation.   I should be praying for him daily, but I became frustrated when my prayers seemed tiny and brief.  I wanted my prayers to be as big, and bold as my love.  So I devised another fast,  especially for this situation.  I will continue this fast until a conclusion is reached.  Since this fast is current, I will keep it private for now.

Jesus gave specific  instructions for fasting.

 “And when you fast, don’t make it obvious, as the hypocrites do, for they try to look miserable and disheveled so people will admire them for their fasting. I tell you the truth, that is the only reward they will ever get. But when you fast, comb your hair and wash your face.  Then no one will notice that you are fasting, except your Father, who knows what you do in private. And your Father, who sees everything, will reward you.   Matthew 6:16-18 NLT

Did you notice that Jesus says WHEN YOU FAST.  Not IF you fast.

Other ideas for long term fasting are:  television, computer, phone activity (you could use it just to take calls),  coffee (taking it black when you don’t usually would be a great fast), sodas,  makeup, jeans, earrings, nail polish, even taking a different out of the way route home from work would be a great reminder to pray.  Anything that could purposely cause you inconvenience.   And by the way, if you recoiled when you read one of these ideas, and said to yourself you could never give up that particular item…I hate to tell you, but THAT’S the one you should go for first!  It’s all about suffering y’all.  Click here for Long Term Fasting Ideas printable PDF.

All of the above are long term fasts.  There are times when immediate abstaining from food fasts are more appropriate.  Big decisions, upcoming surgeries, safe travels, marriages are a few examples.  In scripture there were times when fasting was done with a group.  Once my sister and I fasted and prayed for a immediate need in her family.  And on a side note, EVERY time I have abstained from food to pray I have received deep, powerful insights from the Holy Spirit.  He is working with you, n sync with you while you suffer in prayer…bringing your groans to the Father.  (Romans 8)

Be creative with your fasting y’all.  Think outside of the box and become powerful prayer warriors.  Blessings!

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So really, if I want to fight like a boss, like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy. Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me. In order to swing the sword, I must train. Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.


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Fight Like a Boss, Against Unseen Forces

Before you read my post, check out my video below where I walk on the Texas Inter-coastal Canal.  Click below to hear about the time I went DOWN 🙂

Spiritual Disciplines- Reading and Memorizing Scripture

 

 

 

 

 

 

I love that Jesus fought Satan with scripture while He was being tempted in the desert.  There He was…weakened and hungry,  and the only thing He spoke, besides “No” and “Get out of here!” were  “It is written…” followed by  a scripture.    See Matthew 4 

So really, if I want to fight like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy, pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place,  and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace.  In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. Ephesians 6:13-17 NLT

Now here’s where those pesky distractions come y’all, at least for me.  In order to swing the sword, I must train.  Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.  There are three ways to handle the Word of God:  you can read it, study it, and memorize it.

So really, if I want to fight like a boss,  like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy.   Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me.  In order to swing the sword, I must train.  Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.

Read

Reading scripture is not all that hard.  Instead of checking Facebook during the many times I am required to wait in the course of my day, I like to use the app from Gateway.com to read the Word on my phone. One idea is to read the same section of scripture each day for a week, listening to the Spirit target specific areas of your life.  I guarantee the Spirit will help you use this same passage on behalf of a friend, while you use your voice to speak a counter attack against the enemy.This idea is great to use with your children too.  The strategy of repetition infuses the Word into your mind and heart so it can be pulled up and spoken at a moment’s notice.

So really, if I want to fight like a boss, like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy. Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me. In order to swing the sword, I must train. Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.

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Study

Studying the Word is more than just reading it, but might include doing research, thinking about context, embracing the figurative language, word study, cross reference, and relating your experiences.    Study is digging deeper.  Study is lingering in the Word.  I love to participate in Bible study groups, but I also wanted to learn to study on my own, so  I developed a Bible study guide for myself that I would love to share with you.

So really, if I want to fight like a boss, like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy. Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me. In order to swing the sword, I must train. Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.

The Deeper Study Guide is meant to be stapled on the front of a composition book. Look at the end of this post to find out how to get one for your personal study.

Memorize

To a brain on overload, sometimes it just can’t seem to hold anything else.  That’s what the enemy wants you to think.  Shove the trivial to the side and make room for POWER.  Because that’s what God’s Word is.  A sharp sword.  So sharp it can slice the head off of your enemy with one swipe.  So sharp it can surgically remove that dark stronghold that clings.  So sharp it can expose that which is hiding, maybe even from the one who wields it.  A sword is no good if it can’t be drawn quickly.  By the time you have accessed your Bible app, or Googled a verse, the perfect moment may have passed.

So really, if I want to fight like a boss, like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy. Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me. In order to swing the sword, I must train. Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.

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One of the first scriptures I memorized was Philippians 4:4-7.  On a bumpy flight this fall, I sat next to a woman who was outwardly expressing everything I was feeling on the inside…terror.  I comforted her by reciting my memory verse, “Do not be anxious about anything…”  Not only did it calm her, but it did me also.

So really, if I want to fight like a boss, like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy. Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me. In order to swing the sword, I must train. Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too..

Look below to see how you can sign up to receive this MEMORIZE cover, and the table of contents template, along with instructions.

 

In conclusion, I want to offer one last reason why you should be in the Word.

For a time is coming when people will no longer listen to sound and wholesome teaching. They will follow their own desires and will look for teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear.  They will reject the truth and chase after myths.  2 Timothy 4:3-4 NLT

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So really, if I want to fight like a boss, like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy. Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me. In order to swing the sword, I must train. Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.

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Check out the first post in the Spiritual Discipline Series:

Spiritual disciplines will clothe you with depth, suitable clothes for the wedding banquet. Find out what these disciplines are, and battle the enemy as he tries to steal your time from you.

Pictures:  +taken at Gilchrist Beach in Texas, ++original picture taken from  the window of our car as we drove through California on the way to Los Angeles.

 

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It is important to know that Jesus is not a genie ready to deliver hearts and rainbows just because I rubbed the lamp. Look y'all, if you are like me, and I'm betting you are, you spend most of your time in prayer presenting your requests. Here are some ideas to make your prayer time into more of a partnership...more of a love fest...more of an expression of trust.


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How I Stopped Rubbing a Useless Magic Lamp When I Prayed

Spiritual Disciplines Series:  Prayer

It is important to know that Jesus is not a genie ready to deliver hearts and rainbows just because I rubbed the lamp. Look y'all, if you are like me, and I'm betting you are, you spend most of your time in prayer presenting your requests. Here are some ideas to make your prayer time into more of a partnership...more of a love fest...more of an expression of trust.

Prayers often don’t work out quite like we imagine them.    A divorce might divide a family.  A child might die.  The innocent might suffer.  Life is difficult.  It is important to know that Jesus is not a genie ready to deliver hearts and rainbows just because I rubbed the lamp.

It is important to know that Jesus is not a genie ready to deliver hearts and rainbows just because I rubbed the lamp. Look y'all, if you are like me, and I'm betting you are, you spend most of your time in prayer presenting your requests. Here are some ideas to make your prayer time into more of a partnership...more of a love fest...more of an expression of trust.

Look y’all,  if you are like me, and I’m betting you are, you spend most of your time in prayer presenting your requests.  Here are some ideas to make your prayer time into more of  a partnership…more of a love fest…more of an expression of trust.

Remove Yourself

I found this great verse in 1 Peter 4:7, and I have included several different versions below.  I wonder if Peter was recalling the time he and his friends fell asleep while waiting in the garden with Jesus when he wrote this?

The end of the world is near. You must be the boss over your mind. Keep awake so you can pray. NLV

Now the end of all things is near; therefore, be serious and disciplined for prayer. HCSB

The end of all things is near. Therefore be alert and of sober mind so that you may pray. NIV

First of all, I suggest that you set aside time to pray…not the praying you constantly do in your mind as you go about your day…and not the nightly prayer you say while falling to sleep on your pillow.  Jesus often removed Himself from the crowds to spend time with His Father.  We too should remove ourselves from the crowds and become disciplined about our time with God.  I found a place behind my closet door where I can go to have private time with my Lord.  Click here to read How I Found a Space to Pray in my Small House.

Seek Synchronization

There are two wills at play when I pray, mine and God’s.  My will seeks comfort and escape from suffering.  God’s will is more mysterious.  God’s will incorporates parenting and His immeasurable imagination.  And sometimes it requires prolonged suffering.  I am so glad the Holy Spirit inspired Paul to include his trouble with the thorn of Satan in 2 Corinthians.  It gives us a glimpse of the mind of Christ when He reminds the tormented Paul that:

“My grace is all you need.  My power works best in weakness.”  2 Corinthians 12:9 NLT

The suffering obviously came from the enemy, but the suffering was prolonged by Jesus to keep Paul from becoming conceited. (read the whole passage here)  Who can understand the mind of God?  Not me.  But what should my reaction be to chronic difficulty and trouble?  How should I respond in prayer?  Should I shake my fist at the One who knows all?  Should I feel forgotten and discouraged?  This was Paul’s reaction:

So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.  That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:9-10

To be able to pray for pleasure in weaknesses, to be able to ask that His grace be enough is my idea of a partnership of wills.  I may not feel it, but I can ask for Him to help me feel it.  Strength in the middle of pain.  My ongoing prayer for myself and for others on my prayer list is to be able to withstand God’s will, to be able to trust Him when things look bleak, and to have His grace be enough.  But mainly I pray this from Ephesians 3:14-19

For His unlimited resources

For power with inner strength through the Spirit

That I learn to trust Him so Jesus will make His home in  my heart

That the root of God’s love will keep me strong

That I will be given the power to understand how wide, how strong, how deep His love is

That I will be made complete with all the life and power that comes from God

 

It is important to know that Jesus is not a genie ready to deliver hearts and rainbows just because I rubbed the lamp. Look y'all, if you are like me, and I'm betting you are, you spend most of your time in prayer presenting your requests. Here are some ideas to make your prayer time into more of a partnership...more of a love fest...more of an expression of trust.

Diversify

In the past, my prayer time has been B-O-R-I-N-G!  Why in the world would I want to linger in prayer if I am distracted or uninterested?

One way I  solved this dilemma was by gathering together the latest in worship music on my Pinterest page so I have it available as I pray.   For example, I particularly love the song “Come Alive (Dry Bones)” by Lauren Daigle as I pray over the  lost and distracted people on my prayer list.  On some days I just put on instrumental meditation music, close my eyes, breath deeply and just BE with Jesus.

On other days if I am particularly stressed about something I will use a passage like Psalm 23 to remind myself through the scripture that God is my Shepherd while using my prayer journal to write it down.  My journal then becomes encouragement for me when I reread past entries.

If I run out of words to use in praise, I go to the Psalms.

Some days I try to just be thankful and not ask anything of Him.  I post pictures of my family and feel my heart swell with thankfulness as I look at their faces and know the Holy Spirit is bringing words I cannot say straight to my Father.

Be Ready

A couple of years ago something unexpected and scary happened to one of my children.  I got obsessed and worried and discovered I was not as strong as I thought.  I begged and pleaded and I was NOT filled with peace.   There was no syncing up with God’s will AT ALL.  There was no partnership. I was a total disappointment to myself.  The fiery arrows from the enemy were burning me.  Where was that genie when I needed him?   The only way I survived spiritually was because three people I loved reminded me of the things I forgotten. They prayed with me and read scriptures to me.

Then I remembered.

It was obvious that I needed more military training. More discipline in prayer.  I needed to learn to be the boss over my mind.   I pray that in the moment when your world seems to fall apart, you won’t fall apart like I did…that the discipline of prayer and Bible study will sustain you.  Be ready… because our enemy is prowling like a lion.

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Spiritual disciplines will clothe you with depth, suitable clothes for the wedding banquet. Find out what these disciplines are, and battle the enemy as he tries to steal your time from you.Do you sometimes forget you have no power over the weaknesses in the one you love? It's time to capture every rebellious thought about your spouse and focus on the battle in prayer.I want to show you how I found a space to pray in my small house after watching The War Room. See how I created a space on the back of a door and sign up for free printables of the prayer banner, labels, and prayer cards that I use in my time with God.So really, if I want to fight like a boss, like Jesus, I need to chose my words like Jesus did, quoting scriptures to the enemy. Pulling out the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God.Now here's where those pesky distractions come y'all, at least for me. In order to swing the sword, I must train. Not only do I need military training and discipline to fight distractions, but my kids need to learn to fight with scripture too.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Do you sometimes forget you have no power over the weaknesses in the one you love? It's time to capture every rebellious thought about your spouse and focus on the battle in prayer.


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How I stopped praying to myself instead of to God…about my husband

Do you sometimes forget you have no power over the weaknesses in the one you love? It's time to capture every rebellious thought about your spouse and focus on the battle in prayer.

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Spiritual Discipline Series:  Praying

Do you sometimes forget you have no power over the weaknesses in the one you love? It's time to capture every rebellious thought about your spouse and focus on the battle in prayer.

I discovered that when I spent time wishing that a certain weakness in my husband was another way, or when I replayed a scenario, or made comparisons,  what I was really doing was talking to myself instead of God….sadly, I realized that I was in essence praying to myself.  Then, forgetting that I have no power, I would speak words of correction and instruction, which seemed to always come out as criticism.  Look y’all, I was treating myself as if I were God, as if I were the one who could fix my husband.  This realization caused me to seriously look at what was going on in my thoughts.  It was time to do away with pointless mind games, and really go to spiritual battle for my husband.

We are human, but we don’t wage war as humans do. We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments. We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people (OR OUR SPOUSE, my insert) from knowing God. We capture their rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey Christ.  2 Corinthians 10:3-5 NLV

This post is perfect for those of you who are single too.  Go to battle now for your future.

The Heart Always Speaks

The best gift you can give your spouse is unconditional acceptance and support.  The worldly culture that surrounds us tries to make us think that perfection is attainable, that imperfection is disgusting.  We create lists in our thoughts of  ways things could be better.  We compare.  We wish.

Even church culture can offer opportunities to make comparisons.  Our spouse just doesn’t seem to measure up to what is being said from the pulpit, or to the family on the neighboring pew.  What if your spouse is lacking in religious fervor?  What if spiritual initiative mostly comes from you?

The moment one of your thoughts come out of your mouth…the instant a suggestion passes your lips it will inflict pain, it will tear down.  No matter how it is framed, it will always come out as criticism.

Jesus talks about this very problem.  It’s the heart y’all.  After a wish  has lived so long in our minds, it settles into our hearts.  Once it is in our hearts the mouth can’t help but speak.  It’s up to us to re-frame what is in the heart.

But the words you speak come from the heart—that’s what defiles you. Matthew 15:18 NLT

 Weakness is Opportunity

I love this quote from the book The Love Dare by Steven and Alex Kendrick

“Have you ever wondered why God gives you overwhelming insight into your spouse’s hidden faults?  Do you really think it’s for endless nagging?  No, its for effective kneeling.  No one knows better how to pray for your mate than you.”

So do inventory of your spouse’s weaknesses. Some are trivial and in love will need to be overlooked.  But some are of a spiritual nature and need to be brought before the Father.

Wage Spiritual Battle

In your mind, change the way you see the weakness. If the issue is, for example, the way he spends his  time, or a problem with negativity, restructure your mind to see the weakness for what it really is, an attack from the enemy.

Do you sometimes forget you have no power over the weaknesses in the one you love? It's time to capture every rebellious thought about your spouse and focus on the battle in prayer.

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My suggestion is to pick two to three simple prayers, with spiritual goals for your mate.   Rework the negative with a positive spin.  For example, a problem with a short temper might be changed to a prayer for increased fruit of the spirit. Capture every rebellious thought about your spouse and focus on the battle.

For those who love free stuff, I have created a printable prayer sheet with instructions for use in carrying out this exercise.  You can easily make your own, but this is done for you with hearts and all.  Just sign up to receive my posts in your email one or two times a week.   Click on the graphic below and I will send the PDF file to you in a welcome letter.

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Pictures:  +on the road to California to our son’s wedding, taken by our daughter in the back seat, ++State park in Tucson, AZ on the same trip

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